‘Do you mind her writing about you like that in her blog?” my friend asked my husband over Christmas. We were all gathered in a friends house and I had just discovered that a number of those present, regularly read my blog, or at least had access to it. ‘Yerrah” said my husband, (don’t even get me started on the number of times he begins a sentence with Yerrah), “I don’t mind really, sure I’ve heard her say worse about me”.
On looking back over my posts I see that there may be an unhealthy balance showing up, in favour of my tongue in cheek description of our life and times together. However I have actually written a few posts of a more serious nature in which the man himself is shown in a very good light, I’d even fancy him again if he wasn’t already mine! (In case your interested this one in particular shows why this man means so much to me, it’s called ‘Keep Out’)
Last night as I lay in bed I pondered on our life together. This year we will be married twenty five years. We have been together over thirty. It seems such a long time when I say it, and remember all the things that have happened in my life and in the world during that time. Yet as I looked at him sleeping last night I thought to myself how lucky am I? I thought of my friends remark and my husbands reply. It made me smile.
Because the one thing I have shared with my husband over the past thirty years that has kept us together through some dreadful days. was not the heady flush of first love, nor the steady hand of friendship we have shared.It was not the wedding ring on our fingers, nor the years of shared sorrows and joys. No, the one thing that has kept us together through thick and thin, is the ability we have to make each other laugh. There is no one alive makes me laugh as much as he does, and there is nothing in life I enjoy as much as laughter.
So tonight for one night only I will go all mushy, (get the buckets, you have been warned). This is for you E. May we continue to laugh together for many more years. xxx
I was introduced to this Johnny Cash song by my brother. In case you haven’t time to listen to it here are the first two verses.
“Rose Of My Heart”
Together as close as can be.
But sometimes it’s hard to find time in between,
To tell you what you mean to me.
You are the love of my life.
A flower not fading nor falling apart,
If you’re tired, rest your head on my arm.
Rose of my heart.
A blog buddy of mine lost his partner around this time of year. I’d also like to dedicate this song to him. Duncan thinking of you.