Ladies (only) tonight I share the secret to a long and happy marriage.

Men it’s time to stop reading! My secret ladies is dishonesty. Well perhaps that is a little blunt, but for myself who has been married over twenty years, dishonesty works perfectly.  In fact now that I think of it most days begin and end with a lie. Let me explain. As my husband is an … More Ladies (only) tonight I share the secret to a long and happy marriage.

Part of our heritage, or a waste of time? The Irish language and me.

I am Irish. As I say it I feel proud. I love this country, it’s countryside and people. I know that for many the past number of years have been a struggle and the shame of our treatment of unmarried mothers and the widespread abuse in the church and within sporting organisations has shook us … More Part of our heritage, or a waste of time? The Irish language and me.

The ripple effect.

When our young friend Dan died in November it sent a seismic shock through our village. It was the second death of a child within three weeks. Understandably it affected many, with hundreds coming to see him off. I have met some mothers who told me that as they passed the church that day, knowing … More The ripple effect.