Here is my latest article in The Examiner’s Feelgood supplement…When is a lie a lie?
Last week, I happened to remark during a family chat, that my children were not very good at telling lies.”That’s because you are such a liar Mum.” they chorused. Really? That didn’t strike me as a very loving thought, a fond memory to hold of their dearest mother? So I challenged them.
“I don’t tell lies, only stories!”
“Mum, you lie every day,” they chorused.
Wounded, I tried to explain the difference between my lies and a good story, but they were not very receptive. This evening, as I remember a recent ‘story’ about car keys, I wonder if they were right?
Days before Christmas my car keys were ‘lost’. One of my daughters was the last to have them. This was a glorious turn of events, as it was usually I who had mislaid them.
Imitating how helpful she is when the roles are reversed, I watched her search. However, I needed to go out, so using the spare key I left. Nearly one hour later I returned, to discover she was still searching and appeared to be a little unhinged. I watched as she looked in the freezer, the fridge and the washing machine, having already been through the recycling bin. Her sister had joined in, in a rather faint hearted manner and guilt led me to do the same, for all of five minutes, before a cup of tea called.
The two searchers joined me at the table, one a lot more frazzled than the other.
“I’ve searched everywhere.” the frazzled one remarked.
“Obviously not everywhere.” I replied, mimicking the words spoken to me daily.
“Well I can’t think of anywhere else. I’ve checked the car, the boot and the whole down stairs. Everywhere…” her words drifted towards the end, as she shook her head.
“Don’t worry, they’ll turn up when we stop looking.” I assured her. “That always happens to me.”
“Imagine Mum, if after all this time it was you that lost them?” suggested my other daughter with a decided glint in her eye.
“No way. I’m not taking the blame this time.” I protested. “Remember, she came in last and locked the car? However at the very moment I was vehemently denying any wrongdoing a very tiny door in the recesses of my memory began to creak open. As I looked in I saw a back room upstairs…a search for a scarf…keys placed on a shelf…oh please no…surely not?
I excused myself and casually walked upstairs, my heart racing, “Please let them be lost. Please don’t let me find them!” I made my way to the shelf of my memory flash and horror of horror there lay the keys. Quick as a flash I pocketed them.
Returning downstairs, without thinking twice, I placed them in the crib, right behind baby Jesus (I’m sure there’s a sin there somewhere) and returned to the kitchen where Frazzled was sitting, shoulders hunched, head in hands.
Just then the front door opened and the answer to my problem, daughter number three, arrived home.
“What’s up?” she asked.
“Your sister lost the car keys.” I said, busily typing a text.
Her phone pinged in the background, which may or may not have received a message saying, “The keys are in the crib. Find them. Say nothing.
“I bet you I’ll find them,” announced daughter number three, reading her text, “I’m great at finding things”
Frazzled groaned. “She’s useless!”
Two minutes later she returned shaking the car keys.”Baby Jesus had them.” she beamed, sharing a conspiratorial wink with me as Frazzled sat, mouth open.
“Wow, I’d say it’s a miracle.” I smiled.
So now I am left to wonder, was that indeed a lie, or a perfect example of story telling, where everyone lived happily ever after?
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22 thoughts on “There I am in the paper #14”
Stretching the truth more than a smidge, Tish….but you knew that
Sshhh Sue. I’ll be telling my gang everyone agreed with me. BTW I never confessed to ‘frazzled’ so she only found out when she read it last week. She took it well thank goodness. 🙂
I couldn’t make something like this up if I say and thought about it for days. I would be the frazzled one!
Being such a storyteller as I is probably not something to be proud of!
Growing up when we would tell a rather far fetched ‘story’ my mum would comment. “A lie wouldn’t choke you!” She may have been right.
I love this, Tric. I wonder about the Baby Jesus bit too????
Hahaha. He’s young I’d say he would enjoy a bit of fun! 😄
You’ll train him well, anyway!!
Makes a GREAT story.
Thanks Colleen. Yes a story.
i love the story and you could start saying what our new president’s camp is saying , ‘it was not a lie, just an altered truth.’
He is the master at that. I will have to continue to study his many altered truths.
Oh my, you are horrible! But in the nicest NICEST way! I loved that story. (as in story telling)
Thank you. I know it was a bit mean, but I did enjoy re writing it. Probably more than she did reading it!
haha great story! Your poor daughter who was searching for an hour though..!
Yes I did feel a little guilty about that. She’s made a good recovery though. 🙂
Oh dear. A good story needs a plot and a red herring .
Thanks Elaine patricia. She’s not as impressed as you with my tale.
You are hilarious!!!
Thanks Victoria. It’s great to know others enjoyed it.
I wouldn’t call it a lie, Tric. I’d just say it was Christmas so you were giving the truth some well-deserved time off.
Yep I’m thoughtful like that.